It’s that time of year again… Time for prize givings, awards ceremonies and year end functions. There is merriment, gift giving and recognition for all the great things that have been done and achieved through-out the year.
2018 is fast coming to a close and December might have been a joyful yet frantic, busy time of the year for you and those around you. If you are anything like me you are stressing out, thinking about all the things that you haven’t done or still need to do before you can have some much needed time to relax with family and friends.
You might be beating yourself up about all the things that you haven’t achieved yet; that learning. story that you still need to write, the self-review that still needs evaluating or the teaching inquiry that you still need to write reflections for. There might be a family corner that needs a bit of love or an area in your centre that needs a jolly good clean.
Honestly, we can be our own worst enemies, our harshest critics and we can so easily get caught up in a negative mind loop. If we look for it, we can always find more things to do, or things that we could have done better. However, there comes a time when you just need to say to yourself, “I have done enough and that is good enough.”
Often we find it so easy to praise others around us for all the fabulous things that they do. However, how many times have you stopped this year to give yourself a well deserved pat on the back for your achievements and your wins big or small?
Celebrate the wins
Now I know that you might need a bit of encouragement to do this for yourself. We are not programmed to sound our own trumpets.
But I urge you to sit down today (with a cuppa or maybe something a bit stronger) and write down all your wins and achievements big and small. Here are somethings that might get the ball rolling…
Write about obstacles that you have overcome this year about how strong and resilient you are – Yeah!
Write about ticking something off your bucket list. Yeah!
Write about the days when you felt that you couldn’t face the day, but still found the inner strength of character to get dressed and get out there because you knew that someone else was depending on you. Yeah!
Write about being a good friend, colleague, partner, sister, daughter, mother, father, grandmother, grandfather and all-round good person. Yeah!
Write about the families that you connected with, the children’s lives that you have made a difference in and are forever changed because of who you are. Yeah!
Write about how amazing you are for juggling a career and being someone’s parent and managing to finish assignments and bossing them. Yeah!
Write about how you inspired and empowered others and how they grew as teachers and people because of your feedback and encouragement. Yeah!
Write about your failures and mistakes, the lessons you learnt along the way and how you grew as a person. Yeah!
This might feel a bit strange at first, but once you get going you will be astonished by just how much you have accomplished in your personal as well as your professional life.
And then it is time to take a moment to reflect on your list of achievements, pause for the applause and celebrate all the amazingness that is you!
Thanks for reading. I wish you an amazing 2019 – Here’s to more of those wins!